Some people get stuck in the past. Its difficult for them to let go and move on. They talk about their past, blame their past and keep doing the same things over and over again. You make mistakes in life, but aren't you supposed to learn from them? When you repeat the same behavior several times over, it becomes an ingrained habit. Habits are difficult to change. If that habit works for you, why would you want to change it. The excuses you use to explain the behavior then become just that-EXCUSES! When is it time to start taking responsibility for your life? For your behavior? For the choices that you made? For the lives that you ruined along the way?